Hi, if you restrict food from a child in your home, they are more likely to have a negative relationship with food.

Basically meaning- YOU CAN CAUSE YOU CHILD TO HAVE AN EATING DISORDER AS AN ADULT.

This can include:

  • binge eating (all food or just certain foods or types of food)
  • bulimia nervosa
  • anorexia
  • Orthorexia

Please dont set your kids up to have issues in their adulthood… It really sucks.

This comes from me, an adult who suffers from binge eating and hormonal issues.. thise tied together and weight loss is practically impossible.

I was restricted and basically denied any “junk food” and sweets, and now.. that os what I turn to when I am angry, upset amd mostly when something goes against how I planned out.

It may not make sense to every one and that is totally okay… But please understand, healthy perportions is great but denied and restrictions and cause unhealthy knowledge.

12 Years.

My father, at lake erie

His happy places were fishing, watching NFL amd NASCAR.

He enjoyed a lot towards the end of his life, he worked hard and deserved it.

He had a lot of struggles in his 41 years on this earth.

I cant say he was the best man, person or father there was… But I sure can say he was perfect for me.

I was raised to be strong and independent. I was raise to know right from wrong. I was raised by a single father…

I didn’t know we were ever poor until I was older, but I had every thing I needed.

I was loved.

My dad was taken from my life was to soon. I was 14. In the past 12years he has missed my graduting with honors, serving 5years in the Navy. He missed the births of his grandsons and my marriage…

So many days I wish I could simply call him, or drive to his house…

I miss him.

Heres to 12 years… Amd more to come… Waiting til my kids are old enough to understand so I can tell them stories about him.

Sigh Of Relief

I do my best to keep politics out of my posts, but I feel the need to write some things.

I have a mixed husband and kids. He is black and japanese, as he says heavy on the japanese, as thats the culture he enjoys the most.

I myself am apart of the LGBTA+ and a woman…

I have friends of all walks of life.

Humans rights were never a debate for me.

I stand strong on this election was about morals and human rights and equality.

I hope you sleep easier. I hope my friends of color, and minorities can take a deep breathe. I hope women may gain control over THEIR bodily rights.

I do not apologise if you disagree. I think trump is trash.

This is not the end, we still have to work. We need to keep advocating. We must protect women’s rights. Children in cages. Immigration rights. Poc lives. We still have work to do. Please dont stop.